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Lately, I've been reading my way through a book called unChristian. I don't think it's for everyone. A lot of statistics about what people really think about Christians today. Needless to say, it has really opened my eyes.
Lately, I've been reading my way through a book called unChristian. I don't think it's for everyone. A lot of statistics about what people really think about Christians today. Needless to say, it has really opened my eyes.
It's been a long time since I posted anything. I had some people ask me when I was going to put something else up. I don't feel like posting just for the sake of posting. I want to have something good to talk about.
So on the last blog I made, I talked about our friends in Uganda, and them wanting to help a family there who lived in a building that was not finished. They sent out an email to people they knew. Their goal was to finish the construction of a one room house they lived in. I just got an email from them that the response was so great they not only could finish they one room, but they could add another room, and buy them furniture and mattresses. They are talking of providing them with seeds and tools to plant a garden. This is what the church is supposed to do.
Most of us had the same experience this week, we were without power. And it was a terrible inconvenience. I mean how could I watch the Jets play the Patriots without my TV? How can I waste time on the internet? Honestly, I was thankful for the power outage. First off, I got to meet some of my neighbors I had never talked to before. Putting aside that I have lived there almost 3 years and don't know all my neighbors yet, that's an opportunity that I would never have had without the power outage. Something else, we got to spend time with other people in our small group because they had power and they opened their homes to us. Jill and I stayed at Jimmy and Julie Winkelman's and then at Jin and Lisa Park's, because they wanted to help those in need, which is funny that we might feel like we're in need.
Sometimes being here in Uganda feels overwhelming. There is just so much poverty, disease, and death that sometimes I tell myself that I can’t help everyone, so I should just turn a blind eye. Some days I feel as if there just isn’t a whole lot I can really do…
Today started out much the same. We went to the home of an elderly widow, Melisha, who cares for her three grandchildren. Her daughter died from HIV/AIDS and her youngest grand-son, Charles (age six,) also has HIV. Our trip’s purpose was to deliver Operation Christmas Child boxes to Melisha’s grandchildren to encourage them, but I couldn’t believe what I saw when we pulled up to Melisha’s home. Her dwelling was a small 6ft by 6ft building which was only half constructed. Melisha told us her daughter was paying to have it built for her but she passed away in the middle of its construction. It stood with only ¾ of a tin roof and half of a brick wall on one side. The rain can freely pour into the home (as it is the middle of the rainy season here in Uganda!) As I looked at six year old Charles, I thought of his weakened immune system from the HIV ravaging his body. I can only imagine how the rain and cold aggravates his disease. When I glanced into the home from the outside, I noticed there were no beds and no furniture. I couldn’t believe that Charles had to lie down every night on a cold and wet ground.
We gave Charles his box and he was so excited. He received three matchbox cars! I listened to him talk animatedly in a language I don’t yet grasp, assumingly telling me all about his cars! I only wished that we were able to provide more for Charles as I looked around his dilapidated home.
As we were pulling away, I watched Melisha get on her knees inside her home and start to pray. In that instant, God encouraged me. He showed me that although I can’t help everyone, I can seek to help the people He brings across my path! He reminded me of the verse, “Whatever you do to the least of these, you do unto me.” To turn a blind eye because I sometimes feel overwhelmed in Uganda, I am turning a blind eye to Him. I began talking with my co-worker Damali about what we can do. She researched and informed Ruco that it would cost about 1 million Ugandan shillings-approximately 500 dollars to repair Melisha’s home. She also said the home could be repaired in less than two weeks! We want to ask for your help in repairing Melisha’s home. We are going to hire the builder and trust that God provide for Melisha, following Melisha’s example of faith. We are hoping to raise the 500 dollars, and with any extra money we receive, buy Melisha and her grandchildren beds, blankets, and other necessities. If you are able to help in any way, you may send a check to my parent’s home address, where it will then be placed into an account Ruco and I can access here in Uganda. Ruco has taken many photos of Melisha, Charles, and the home which you can see atwww.eyeingafrica.blogspot.com. Also, if you do send funds, perhaps you could email us and let us know how much you are planning to send, so that we can establish how much we still need for the project. We are very excited about the prospect of Melisha finally having a safe-haven for her grand-children. We are also excited when we think about our family and friends helping in this endeavor!!!
500 dollars is not a lot of money to give someone a home. I'm complaining that I can't play Madden, and these people don't have a bed to sleep in. I guess what I'm thinking about is that we are blessed here in America. I think we are so blessed that it's hard for us to rely on God. We can pretty much take care of ourselves, without Him. We need to take advantage of all that we are blessed with, to take it and bless others. I may never meet Melisha or Charles, but I will impact their lives in so positive way. That's what we should do, every way possible.
Man, last week was crazy. I have such good stuff to write about, but no time to do it.
To set this up, two Sundays ago, Didi talked about engaging the world. If you missed it or need a refresher, go to the new test website at mtcarmel.parkapps.com and go to past sermons and check it out.
So the story begins last Friday, July 25th. I took on the ambitious project of digging out my foundation wall because I was getting moisture in my basement. With a new baby taking up so much space in the house, the basement has to be a place where things can happen for me personally. Moisture is no good. So I dug, and dug, and dug, till a huge blister developed on my hand, so I stopped. Saturday I dug a little more. Not much. Jill started to get worried that I wouldn’t follow through and we would have a big pile of dirt on our driveway for ever, like last year when I dug our patio. Sunday was awesome. Steve Hartley came over and he is a digging machine. I say, who needs a backhoe when you have Steve Hartley. With Steve’s help we found the bottom of the foundation, at a little more than 4 and a half feet. But that was half of length of the house. I still had the rest to go. Monday, with rain imminent, I left work early to get to digging. But I had to bust out the side walk. So I used my sledge hammer and quickly dispatched the 3’ by 3’ sidewalk to my side door. Progress was quick now. I dug and dug and finally knocked through the space where the sidewalk had been. After about 5 hours of digging I had my hole done. I had never accomplished such a feat so quickly.
The reason I’m telling you this is because as I dug, I made some observations. First, I could only make so much of an impact from the driveway. I could dig to almost 2 feet down from the safety of ground level. But when Steve showed up, he jumped down in the hole, and was able to make a much greater, and much faster impact. And as I saw this it made me realize, to engage the world we have to get down in the hole. Our influence on our neighbors and friends is only a little when we keep them at arms length. But when we get in and get dirt, in the world, then we really can see God work in awesome ways.
I have some friends, pretty much my favorite people I know. Their names are Ruco and Kristi van der Merwe. They help me to see what it’s like to really be in the world and make an impact. In my last blog, I said I had two things I learned while I was in Florida. This is the second. Ruco and Kristi just got back for time serving in the Peace Corp in The Gambia, (that’s in Africa, I had never heard of it either before they went). As we hung out while they were home, they told me all about The Gambia, how it was 130 degrees in the shade during the day, how they had to carry their water and live in a mud hut. How the country was majority Muslim. But what struck me the most, they said they left the Peace Corp early, not because of any of those things, but because they were forbidden to talk about their faith. Ruco told me that when you look around Africa, their are tons of people doing good, bringing food, aid, supplies, the whole nine yards. He wanted to be able to tell people why he was doing it. He was not doing it just for doing good’s sake. He knows a Savior that other people in Africa need to know.
That was an incredible realization. When we here in the US say that if we are good people, then out non-Christian coworkers and neighbors and friends will see how we live and want that for their lives, we are kidding ourselves. We don’t lack basic necessities of life here, we have everything we will generally need to live. But what Ruco said about Africa made me realize, even these people that have huge needs, just providing for the needs is not enough. We have a huge responsibility to be “God” to those around us. In Exodus, Moses tells God that he can’t lead because he has a stutter, and God gets mad. He tells Moses He’s tired of his excuses, and that his brother Aaron will speak for him, to Pharaoh and to the people of Israel. And then God, surprisingly, says something profound. Exodus 4.16 says, “Moreover, he shall speak for you to the people; and he will be as a mouth for you and you will be as God to him.” God tells Moses that he is going to be a real example of who God is to those who need to see Him. That’s us now. Today, people need to see God’s love from US. Where else will they get it?
Doing good things when engaged with the world is not enough. We need to be vocal about why we do what we do, because God wants everyone to come back to him.
Thank you God for showing me through hole digging and friends from college who You are, what You need from me, and how You can love through me!
We went to Pensacola for a baby shower with Jill’s family and friends. While that was all well and good, (we got so much stuff we had to bring a different car home to fit it all!), there were two things about the trip I wanted to talk about. (I’ll talk about one now, and the other next week.)
First, that Friday we went out to the beach and watched the air show. Pensacola is the home of the Navy flight team, the Blue Angels. And they were absolutely amazing. As we’re sitting there waiting for them to show, the anticipation was building. Then faintly in the distant you could make out some extremely small dark objects flying parrallel to the shoreline. Suddenly you see them make a sharp turn toward the beach. They begin to grow and grow, and in the blink of an eye, they’ve buzzed straight past the beach in perfect formation! It was absolutely incredible. These million dollar airplanes and playing chicken with each other, and then swerving at the absolute last second, missing collision by mere inches. But the part I liked the best were the 4 planes that flew in tight formation. They’d come by where we were sitting and everyone would bank at the exact same time. It looked like they were connected and they were one single unit. There is something about watching man and machine working in harmony that really got me thinking. We as the church should strive to be in perfect harmony. Watching the single plane loop and twist was amazing, sure, but seeing four planes, inches apart doing the same thing in perfect harmony leaves you with something you will never forget. A friend of family always says, “Two combined influences will have a much greater impact than two single influences would have.” When you begin to think about the way this applies to our faith, we need to be taking the initiative in influencing others, every one of us. The impact of a sermon, or a worship song will be even greater on a lost person who has been impacted by a person on a relational level. We as the church need to understand that our influence on the lost is just as important as the worship service. We need to all be in small groups, growing together, bringing others in to get that relationship as well. We all need to be serving. CT08:S was a great way, but if we stop there, and wait till next year, then we have missed the point. We can serve year round everyday. And this creates the harmony that we should be in. Two combined influences. When we start being the church, the gathering of those who love Jesus, nothing can stop us!
So, last night was the annual meeting of the two Mt Carmel church softball teams. It is always an epic struggle of perennial power house programs. The the one side we have the black team, head by Tim Dunn. The other is the red team, headed by Kevin Haynes. I happen to play on the red, and awesomer team, I might add. This was a hard fought game and after 6 of 7 innings played the black team held a slim one run lead. So with our game on the line, we come to bat in the top of the 7th. Two batters are quickly retired. We are one out away from shear humiliation at the hands of our bitter rivals.
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So last week I made a trip, spontaneous to Jacksonville, for my little sisters graduation. I totally surprised her, it was awesome. Then when I got home I had graduation parties, which are also awesome. I guess this time of year is about transitions. Moving on to the next part of life.
Hey, what's up? So this was a great week. Found out that we were going to be having a girl, which to me shows how funny God is because like the last 10 people I know who had babies all had girls. Go figure. But I am super excited. It's gonna be awesome. This is going to be a pretty crazy week too. But it should be fun.
So, apparently a blog is a good thing to have. I think I may already have one, but since it is on my home computer only, I wanted to be able to blog from anywhere on any computer. I'm going to try to update at least once a week, hopefully things insightful and thought provoking, but we'll see.
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